Move dating relationship forward
And part of getting closer is revealing your true self over time.
This means you are authentic about parts of yourself, including your preferences re food, politics, values, your life vision etcetera–even if it’s unconventional.
Do you replay the happy moments of the relationship to make you feel good about it?
Do you use them as reasons to continue on with him/her?
In the beginning, you can ask questions about their interests, hobbies and anything that they love. Think of places and things that you enjoy and ask if you’re date would be interested in joining. This can begin by complimenting his choice of restaurant, how he makes you laugh or how cute he is.
There was even one who actually suggested my friend to shave her arm and leg hair because he felt it was a given for girls!
In the end, he/she will just end up being your shadow.
This happened between my ex-best friend, K, and me.
While moving on was painful and took a while, I’m glad I did that because it led me to eventually meet my real soulmate, whom I’m getting married to at the end of this month.
:)If you’re in a relationship that seems to be going nowhere, perhaps it’s time to move on.
In revealing yourself, you will see who can accept you as you are, and every time they do, you will move a little closer and the relationship will become more real.