Dating my boyfriends brother
It started off innocently and I didn't think anything of it as I am a bit frivolous with crushes, but it's got to the stage now where I am insanely jealous of his girlfriend and I can't bear to be around her.We are both always at his parent’s house and although she is nice I hate her for being with him. My bf's brother doesn't know how I feel either and I would never tell him.You may like him because he has a quality your boyfriend don't have. Woman are attracted to things we can't have and can't figure out.At the moment you have crush on him, you can't be in love with someone you don't know. Try to figure out what attracts you to him, you may just be attracted to that quality.Even when a couple has a lot of similarities, strong relationships are built through negotiating the differences.
Again, it may not be logical, but the best place to start is to validate how your boyfriend’s brother is feeling. The best way to prevent him from being defensive is to hear him out, even if it’s painful for you. I am hearing that you would like for the relationship between his brother and you to be different. You are trying to find out why he is upset; address the issue, and talk about how to get along better in the future.
I'm finding it harder and harder to keep a secret as I find myself getting into situations just to be with him.
The other thing is that I sense that he doesn't even like me and we are quite nasty to each other but all I want to do is kiss him. Has anyone else experienced anything similar as I need some advice on what to do and how to stop being in love with my boyfriends brother.
I started seeing my boyfriend a year ago and I love him and his family so much.
But the problem is that I have had a crush on his brother for the past six months.
If you truly do not know the reason, then this is when you are going to see what your relationship is made of.